Self-Love Rule #1 - Understand The first rule is understand. Understand that there is a good reason why you feel the way that you feel, why you struggle the way that you struggle. It's not your fault either. Most mammals are up and running within hours of birth. Human beings are born prematurely so that … Continue reading The 7 Rules of How to Love Yourself and Why You Don’t Have To
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HEAL THE WOUNDED INNER CHILD
How to heal the Inner Child Being Human is not easy! Especially as children. The heart can be wounded or neglected, and as a result we develop defences to protect ourselves from future pain. Although it serves us to do this in the moment, over time we lose connection with our core being, feel lost … Continue reading HEAL THE WOUNDED INNER CHILD
You Can Heal Your Fear, Now.
Although fear can feel like an indestructible force, overcoming fear is easier than you think. We can feel very vulnerable when we have to respond to a situation, and feel unable to do so. Sensing our own vulnerability, can activate an intense fear. Fear can have a very powerful effect, as the instinct to survive! … Continue reading You Can Heal Your Fear, Now.
How to Love Yourself (Is self-love the answer?)
What I have found over and over again while helping people to recover from childhood abuse, symptoms of depression, feelings of emptiness, guilt, shame, and unresolved anxiety... is that we expect ourselves to know. We expect ourselves to know how to be happy, we expect ourselves to know how to love ourselves, and we expect … Continue reading How to Love Yourself (Is self-love the answer?)
Why You Feel Unhappy
There are some basic rules for nurturing happiness in your life. We break almost all of them everyday, and often unconsciously. Getting conscious of them will help you to take control and reclaim a naturally happy life. Here they are... We Doubt Our "Goodness" Many of us have a silent tape that plays out in … Continue reading Why You Feel Unhappy
When Your Ego Takes Over
When anger and fear are flaring up it can be hard to stay balanced. Losing your cool can happen when your ego is threatened. This often happens when you are facing values disagreements. If this causes you to act up in away that you regret later, but struggle to control yourself in the moment, there … Continue reading When Your Ego Takes Over
Shielding Your Energy (Are you an empath?)
Being an empath is both a gift and a curse. Feeling helpless to the negative energies around you is never fun, while feeling oneness is a gift. You can trust yourself that you are feeling the energies around you, so don't go into self-doubt, and there are things you can do to make life easier … Continue reading Shielding Your Energy (Are you an empath?)
I Don’t Belong(and how to heal)
It's a difficult thing to feel out of place. The glass wall between you and everyone else can be torture when you're on one side trying to be seen, understood, and connect. If you are extra-sensory you may struggle even more to feel your true self, and this adds to feeling different. Many of us … Continue reading I Don’t Belong(and how to heal)
Am I Codependent?
Having trouble saying no, paying someone else's way before your own, and putting your energy into others before yourself are signs of codependent being. This way of being can lead to feeling out of control, empty, and never good enough. If your childhood was disorganised, stressful, and even chaotic, you could be living with codependency. … Continue reading Am I Codependent?
Beware the Spiritual Narcissist (Spiritual Bypass – The Spiritual Narcissist’s Best Friend)
Spiritual Bypass Many spiritual principles provide us with ways to navigate life in a compassionate and progressive way. There are times however when these spiritual laws interfere with healing, and can actually be harmful. This is called spiritual bypass. Spiritual bypass is the use of spiritual ideals and practices to sidestep emotional pain or painful … Continue reading Beware the Spiritual Narcissist (Spiritual Bypass – The Spiritual Narcissist’s Best Friend)
Are You an Empath? How to Create Healthy Boundaries (for Empaths)
Your Vision Matters If you are an empath, chances are that you intuitively know what's best for you. This ability enables you to know your true path in life. However, maintaining course can be a challenge when you struggle to hold your ground against the emotional needs of others. Empaths are naturally sensitive to the … Continue reading Are You an Empath? How to Create Healthy Boundaries (for Empaths)
Who Am I? The Confidence to Say “No”
Healing Your Boundaries If setting your personal boundaries sends you running for the hills, you could be unnecessarily stressed, unfulfilled, and feeling the symptoms of depression and anxiety. You could even be living a life of exhaustion, low mood, and intermittent chaos. Reclaiming your boundaries is not just a matter of learning a magic phrase. … Continue reading Who Am I? The Confidence to Say “No”
Metaphysics 101 – Decoding Daily Life (How We Create Reality)
Understanding the metaphysics that govern the reality field can help you access the deeper meaning of everyday problems and situations. This can greatly enhance personal development and healing. Our reality field is created from energy. The physical world that we see is the by-product of energy patterns (waves). The situations that we experience are also … Continue reading Metaphysics 101 – Decoding Daily Life (How We Create Reality)
Back to Basics – How to Deal with a Life Crisis
Any kind of life crisis can be an overwhelming and disorienting experience. When crisis occurs, it's time to get back to basics. Whether the crisis is happening inside (like identity, health, trauma, existential) or on the outside (financial, loss, unexpected surprises) - what matters most during these times is what you do to arm yourself. … Continue reading Back to Basics – How to Deal with a Life Crisis
How to Find Your Life Purpose
How to Find your Life Purpose Who did you want to be when you were 7 years old? As babies, we are getting used to being in a body. As toddlers we've mostly figured that part out, and have evolved into the next stage of learning: mastering emotion (More about Emotion, what is Emotion). We … Continue reading How to Find Your Life Purpose
PRINCIPLES OF CREATION FOR CONSCIOUS LIVING
There are basic principles that organise the reality field and maintain order. Understanding these principles and how they work can support you to create a healthy and abundant life. The Universe is based on energies. 93% of the universe is made of energy, and only 7% of it exists as particle/matter. Particles are collapsed waves, … Continue reading PRINCIPLES OF CREATION FOR CONSCIOUS LIVING
Authenticity Can Save Your Life
If You Feel Unhappy... Many emotional traumas from childhood are caused when our caregivers shame us, snap at us, and ignore us when we are having an emotional experience. This is a kind of emotional abandonment. When as children our emotional life is not accurately received, we can feel abandoned, shamed, unworthy, confused, empty, and … Continue reading Authenticity Can Save Your Life
HEART CENTRED LIVING
Heart Centred Living Many of us believe unconsciously that love is limited and conditional. We associate love with “approval”, believe that we come up short unless deemed otherwise, and become invested in proving self-worth through productivity. We learn to dislike ourselves, and compete with each other. This competition is based on the confusion of wealth, … Continue reading HEART CENTRED LIVING
BUILDING POSITIVE EMOTIONAL RESOURCES
Emotional Presence Technique You may have a specific experience that is causing some emotions to stir up, or you may simply want to do this technique as a daily practice. The goal is to practice presence with your emotion by feeling the sensations of it, instead of telling a story about it. This will show … Continue reading BUILDING POSITIVE EMOTIONAL RESOURCES
Emotional Grounding Techniques
The Three Keys of Emotional Mastery Imagine a crying 1 month old. The baby is fed, clean, rested and will not stop crying. You can treat an emotion as if it is this baby. This baby cannot stop crying on its own because its brain is still growing and learning how to calm down. The … Continue reading Emotional Grounding Techniques