“Clear the Three Ties that Bind You to Your Ex Today.” Whether the break up is mutual, one-sided, out-of-blue, or a long time coming...whether it's from a healthy relationship, or a toxic relationship, it still hurts. The relationship could have ended last week or last decade, however you might still be feeling stuck and unable … Continue reading Relationship Break Up Counselling
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How to Love Yourself (Is self-love the answer?)
What I have found over and over again while helping people to recover from childhood abuse, symptoms of depression, feelings of emptiness, guilt, shame, and unresolved anxiety... is that we expect ourselves to know. We expect ourselves to know how to be happy, we expect ourselves to know how to love ourselves, and we expect … Continue reading How to Love Yourself (Is self-love the answer?)
Why You Feel Unhappy
There are some basic rules for nurturing happiness in your life. We break almost all of them everyday, and often unconsciously. Getting conscious of them will help you to take control and reclaim a naturally happy life. Here they are... We Doubt Our "Goodness" Many of us have a silent tape that plays out in … Continue reading Why You Feel Unhappy
When Your Ego Takes Over
When anger and fear are flaring up it can be hard to stay balanced. Losing your cool can happen when your ego is threatened. This often happens when you are facing values disagreements. If this causes you to act up in away that you regret later, but struggle to control yourself in the moment, there … Continue reading When Your Ego Takes Over
Shielding Your Energy (Are you an empath?)
Being an empath is both a gift and a curse. Feeling helpless to the negative energies around you is never fun, while feeling oneness is a gift. You can trust yourself that you are feeling the energies around you, so don't go into self-doubt, and there are things you can do to make life easier … Continue reading Shielding Your Energy (Are you an empath?)
Am I Codependent?
Having trouble saying no, paying someone else's way before your own, and putting your energy into others before yourself are signs of codependent being. This way of being can lead to feeling out of control, empty, and never good enough. If your childhood was disorganised, stressful, and even chaotic, you could be living with codependency. … Continue reading Am I Codependent?
Beware the Spiritual Narcissist (Spiritual Bypass – The Spiritual Narcissist’s Best Friend)
Spiritual Bypass Many spiritual principles provide us with ways to navigate life in a compassionate and progressive way. There are times however when these spiritual laws interfere with healing, and can actually be harmful. This is called spiritual bypass. Spiritual bypass is the use of spiritual ideals and practices to sidestep emotional pain or painful … Continue reading Beware the Spiritual Narcissist (Spiritual Bypass – The Spiritual Narcissist’s Best Friend)
Who Am I? The Confidence to Say “No”
Healing Your Boundaries If setting your personal boundaries sends you running for the hills, you could be unnecessarily stressed, unfulfilled, and feeling the symptoms of depression and anxiety. You could even be living a life of exhaustion, low mood, and intermittent chaos. Reclaiming your boundaries is not just a matter of learning a magic phrase. … Continue reading Who Am I? The Confidence to Say “No”
Metaphysics 101 – Decoding Daily Life (How We Create Reality)
Understanding the metaphysics that govern the reality field can help you access the deeper meaning of everyday problems and situations. This can greatly enhance personal development and healing. Our reality field is created from energy. The physical world that we see is the by-product of energy patterns (waves). The situations that we experience are also … Continue reading Metaphysics 101 – Decoding Daily Life (How We Create Reality)
How to Find Your Life Purpose
How to Find your Life Purpose Who did you want to be when you were 7 years old? As babies, we are getting used to being in a body. As toddlers we've mostly figured that part out, and have evolved into the next stage of learning: mastering emotion (More about Emotion, what is Emotion). We … Continue reading How to Find Your Life Purpose
PRINCIPLES OF CREATION FOR CONSCIOUS LIVING
There are basic principles that organise the reality field and maintain order. Understanding these principles and how they work can support you to create a healthy and abundant life. The Universe is based on energies. 93% of the universe is made of energy, and only 7% of it exists as particle/matter. Particles are collapsed waves, … Continue reading PRINCIPLES OF CREATION FOR CONSCIOUS LIVING
The Human Aura – What are the Subtle Bodies?
The Human Energy System The physical world that we can hear, taste, touch, smell, and see represents only 7% of the entire universe. 93% of the universe exists in the state of energy. The 7% of the world that we call "material" corresponds to 93% energy. In other words, the world is created of energy … Continue reading The Human Aura – What are the Subtle Bodies?
PORTRAIT OF AN INNER CHILD
They were on their way to the park, and waiting to cross the road. Beep. Beep. Beep - Tock! Green light. Mum held onto Marelise's hand very tightly. Too tightly. She walked briskly, pulling at Marelise's arm as they made their way to the other side of the road. The day before, Marelise and her … Continue reading PORTRAIT OF AN INNER CHILD
FEELING UNWANTED
You look for the reason, but can't find the problem... If you've ever felt unwanted, and are tired of friends and family telling you that "it's all in your head," but you can't change your mind, the problem is not what you think. This is the thing about having a subconscious! We know how we … Continue reading FEELING UNWANTED
WHY IT’S SCARY AND HOW TO CHANGE
When your circumstances don't match your expectations, you want to know how to change. Whether we are working to change our relationship with ourselves, with others, or even our careers - the fear of change can be the thing that stops us from making it. WHEN THE EGO'S SURVIVAL SABOTAGES YOUR SUCCESS The ego is … Continue reading WHY IT’S SCARY AND HOW TO CHANGE
HOW TO BE ASSERTIVE IF YOU ARE AFRAID
STRATEGIES WON'T WORK IF YOU ARE IN FEAR If you've struggled with assertiveness, you'll know that becoming assertive is harder than learning a few skills and practicing saying no to a mirror. There are powerful reasons why you feel unsafe to speak your voice. When 'strategies' don't work, it means that you are stuck in … Continue reading HOW TO BE ASSERTIVE IF YOU ARE AFRAID
THE LOST SELF…WHY YOU FEEL LOST
We all want to be the attuned vital force that directs Life seamlessly. We want to make clear decisions, be successful, and choose the right path for our greatest good. Often though, we feel stuck. It's not so clear how to move forward, how to get out of the 'trap', or what the right choice … Continue reading THE LOST SELF…WHY YOU FEEL LOST